The hardest part of wanting someone is that the person you want doesnt want you the way you want it to be. Missing and wanting are not mutually exclusive. In most instances, they go hand in hand. In missing someone, you are searching (or craving) for the things that you want that is not (in most instances) physically present. In wanting someone, you are getting the 'missed' chance of having something or someone. Although its sound confusing, the game of missing and wanting is the critical game played by both individual who are supposed to be knowledgeable in manipulating it. Let's put love in the picture to further complicate the topic. In love, missing and wanting is an amber that warmth the relationship. Without it love will wane. Love like all other games, requires manipulation of both missing and wanting. Manipulation requires constant 'revision' of the process without breaking the original rule. It requires the creative use of of 'miss-me-sometimes' and 'want-me-sometimes' skills. It is a constant cycle, that is why its called a process. Going back to the main thesis I stated a while ago. The level of expectation of both individual didn't meet in terms of wanting and missing. There are couple of reasons as of why these happen and it quite mouthful to discuss it in details. What I am trying to point out here is that if both realized that there is skewed difference between the levels of expectation between the two, probably that's the best time for them to talk this matter before everything falls into pieces.
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